When several people care about the same person, it is normal to see things differently. Family, doctors and the community each hold part of the picture, and someone usually ends up keeping track of it all. That can be exhausting.
We have spent more than twenty years helping families like yours get everyone on the same page.
Where coordination usually breaks down
Perhaps one of these sounds familiar.
How we can help
A care manager becomes the one point of contact for family, doctors, the community and the insurer, all working from one plan.
We start with a private conversation about who is involved and what is stuck. Then we assess your loved one’s needs independently, so the family has a professional view to work from. We meet with the family, including for the hard conversations, so everyone hears the same recommendation at the same time. Afterwards, you get the plan in writing.
What that usually means in practice:
We are care managers, not family therapists. Our focus is your loved one’s care.
You do not need everyone to agree before you call. The first conversation is free, nothing is shared with the rest of your family, and there is nothing to sign.
What you can do now
- Agree who decides, before the next decision arrives.Choosing one person to make the final call can take a lot of tension out of family decisions.
- Put updates in writing, to everyone at the same time.One short written update, sent to everyone at once, keeps people from hearing different versions.
- Give the providers one name and number.When providers know who to call, fewer things fall through the cracks.
Talk to a care manager
Or call us now on (703) 424-7575. A care manager is on call, day or night. If this is a medical emergency, please call 911 first.
Why families call us
The longest-running care management practice in Northern Virginia, Maryland and DC.
A care manager on call, day or night, so you are not waiting until Monday.
No facility, agency or vendor pays us, so nothing but your family’s situation shapes what we recommend.
One care manager who knows your family and a team behind them, with a number you can call directly.
ElderTree Care Management provides private-pay, non-clinical care management and does not provide medical advice. The guidance on this page is general information about care transitions, not medical or legal advice about your situation. Care managers do not accept referral fees from any provider, facility or vendor.

